Ever experienced the place in life that you just don’t care? Not in a negative way, but in the way that says, I don’t care what others think. I don’t care who likes this or that. I don’t care who agrees with me. I don’t care who supports me. I don’t care who likes me. I don’t care what others have or are doing. That place that people attempted to make you feel as though you were wrong for not caring, when in actuality you finally realized you were or are FREE! If you have not experienced this, I decree today shall be your day.
For many people, this is an unknown place, because it has been normalized to care what others think, and to seek their approval. Ultimately, all that matters is that you are on your life path to Purpose, and the fulfillment thereof. In this, as long as God is pleased, no one else truly matters.
I believe I can speak for many in saying this familiar place of giving too much energy to others concerning our lives, has been the focus. Today, I am sharing this blog to hopefully free you or encourage you to continue walking in freedom, as this is certainly the will of our creator, for your life. Validation from people is absolutely irrelevant. Yes, you want those that are important to you to value and support, even agree with what it is you do, ultimately who you are. However, sometimes that is just not the case. This could be for many reasons, none of which are significant enough for us to care enough, to lose ourselves in what other’s opinions are of us.
It is important that the focus be fully the Purpose, Instructions, Strategies and Goals to fulfill life’s assignment, rather caring about the masses. When Purpose is the focus, everything and everyone attached to the purpose, will manifest into your life and destiny. As a young lady, I cared what others thought of me. I cared who liked me. I cared who supported me. Now, as a mature woman, I am 100 percent certain that no one’s opinion matters concerning my destiny. If I am fully convinced of who I am and what I am created to do, my only objective is to DO IT. Therefore, I speak the same for you.
May you be determined to access the place of Freedom and Peace and understand that just as you are empowered to do what it is you do, and be who you were created to be, those who are assigned and anointed to support you, like you, approve of all you are and do, will find you. Know that it will most likely be complete strangers! Know that it is the will of God to fully persuade you that it is HE who has done all that you shall accomplish, therefore he uses the least of those we expect to accomplish this. I know sometimes that can seem harsh, and sting a bit, but perspective matters. Are you more impressed by those who you expect to be apart because they know you, grew up with you etc. or the complete stranger who has no motive to be apart, other than they have been and/or are being impacted by your gifting? I love the latter, because there is no obligation, only pure and sincere support.
Today, allow the cares of people and things that have no real benefit in your destiny, to be a thing of the past. Embrace the newness of thought, that when you are FREE of people, you are FREE TO BE. You are free to be who you were created to be, to do what you were created to do, and to impact who you were created to impact. Being in this space of Freedom has the benefit of us seeing clearly, the hand of God on our lives, our ministries, businesses, and all that we are. There is nothing greater than the spirit of FREEDOM. You are at liberty to be authentically YOU! Don’t believe me, don’t think it is possible, try it. Release the weight of validation and people’s approval. Release yourself from the cares of others and watch how you begin to care about the things that matter most, that will assist you in fully functioning in purpose. Know that I am rooting for you, and I decree you will get to and walk in your place of FREEDOM!
Say this with me, I AM FREE TO BE ME! I LOOSE THE CHAINS THAT HAVE BEEN BINDING ME. I RELEASE MYSELF FROM THE STRONGHOLD OF OTHERS, AND I WALK BOLDLY IN MY AUTHENTICITY, BEING EXACTLY WHO I WAS CREATED TO BE. FOR I AM FREE TO BE ME!